La reina del pelo bueno (The Queen of Good Hair)

Sep 11, 2019

All her life, Cirle Tatis Ariza had been taught to think her curly hair was something to hide. But after years of harsh chemical treatments, Cirle learned to love her hair, and taught other women to do the same.
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in countries where natural black hair is associated with poverty lack of education and other racist beliefs dating back to Colonial times so women like Silas mother said Lee's don't style their hair naturally which means they don't know how to comb or Bane are their daughters natural hair either I'm face the Alice Army El pelo por Primera vez Los fines de Semana me Mama maybe Noah are impressed

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when Celia was 20 she broke up with her longtime boyfriend the end of this relationship and her struggles with her hair sent her into a period of depression then yeah meow twist Dima muy Baja ja no messantia Bonito Dia Mas que estaba perdiendo Mi pelo she thought how could I be beautiful and feminine if I'm losing my long straight hair so she decided

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silly Works tensions as a shield for another six years until she woke up one morning and saw her pillow covered in hair she had lost so much of it over the years that now at age 26 she was almost bald Joyce table at a row Lisa Jonathan yeah Cassie pelo para poner - extension he's not moment she realized that she had dedicated her entire life to keeping her hair

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our she knew she was going to have to do something drastic

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just seal is mother used the term as an insult and Celia was surprised by her own reaction cuando me mama mama dijo Palin Kira Joe Mills MD pero por que yo soy Negra volcano of India similar see appalling Kira silly began to question the way she understood her racial identity

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she went back to her interest in philosophy which she had studied briefly in college and she started reading works by black women she fell in love with a specific quote from Angela Davis ja no boy said Dad las cosas que no puede cambiar boy can be our las cosas que no puedo acid are the quote sparked something in her she

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when seedless started wearing her braids and natural hair other black women in her City asked her lots of questions about it how did she get it to grow back after the relaxer how did she maintained her afro Joel ankle and pray to Allah information necesaria and YouTube pero que hace Todo estaba English yo no hablo English parent ND Los videos después de ver Los

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various bases mint risotto trataba de de tar Joe necesito Ava dos días para editar on video she decided to call her Channel below Bueno her videos touched on how to care for natural hair and talked about her journey to self-acceptance it took her a while but now she has over 130 thousand subscribers

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let me move forward that you may say so Gigante in Obama who presumably since still has started her Channel she has seen women who suffered third-degree burns from the chemicals they used to straighten their hair it can severely damage their follicles Missy and dull muy triste Albert Camus nosotras las mujeres negras most unto Daniel physical item being psychological

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at some point Silas videos got so much International attention that people in Cartagena started asking her to cut and style their hair jewel is two-way communication is in Aquarius are fellow Kira singing embargo una Amiga necesita para mi Jus Le hace que si di essere low slowly she started to build a client base first she cut her at her mom's house and eventually she moved out on

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on her own a premier Liu had get away it at Tom Pequeno que sólo de espacio para una cuenta de perak me soon silly started getting attention from the press and after two years she was able to move into a commercial space full-time and hire a staff over time something else changed to our DOTA ostomy Mama behold the Alice ourself a low when seedless mother

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I saw how much attention balogh Bueno was getting she started thinking about her own hair she works as a nurse and the relaxer treatments didn't allow her to wash her hair as often as she liked when she was ready she asked Celia to cut her hair but I me mama where Boko TCC Aladar say as soon as a Vida con Su pelo natural pero hasta ahora Asian well tow Alice are say El pelo

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seriously that is our Souza now works full time promoting and styling natural hair in Cartagena Colombia you can find her on Instagram at seed lapel oh Bueno and on YouTube by searching pelo Bueno this story was produced by Maria Memorial a journalist based in New Orleans we'd love to know what you thought of this episode send us an email with your feedback at podcast at Duolingo.com

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